Talk to ME (You) nice, PLEASE!

Boundaries are a form of LOVE.

What is the first thing you say to yourself when you wake up? What do you think about when you reflect on how your parents spoke to you? Do you believe your friends like you? Do you like the people in your life? Do you love your partner but not like them? Are there words of kindness you wish loved ones would say to you and do not?

Two Lessons:

1. Set that boundary, as an act of self-care. Set that boundary as an act of L-O-V-E. Set that boundary so you can keep loving on others.

2. Talk to yourself nice. Talk to me nice.

We are not interested in boundaries as a form of control. Let that go. LET GO. Please let go and let GOD. Let us move and use boundaries as a form of love.

Something happened with me recently, a person did not set a boundary with me and naturally, I crossed it. What did they do to regain control? CROSS MY BOUNDARY. It will either become an unfortunate cycle of people triggering one another.

You also have the option of GROWTH.

As a Leo, with all earth placements, BABY let me GROW LIKE A TREE! This is why boundaries are a form of love. So, you can keep honoring the people in your life how they need, want and deserve to be loved. So, you do not cross their boundaries and they do not cross yours. Resentment is gray muddy water that taste like SEAL POOP AND SOCK WATER, I rebuke that.

So please, today and tomorrow and forever, if you need something; stop walking on eggshells, do not make yourself smaller. I want to urge you to live larger. Urge the loved ones in your life to live larger too.

LESSON #2 // Talk to yourself nice.

The way you talk to yourself is the way you will talk to others. Please, practice some self-compassion if you do not already. Listen to your internal dialogue, is this how you want someone speaking to your younger YOU?! If you are familiar with self-criticism, I am sure you very comfortable to criticize others. I bet you would LOVE to feel supported and loved. If you create a culture of compassion and mindfulness when you speak to yourself, then you will with others, once you do with others, I am very positive they will extend that support in return. When you talk crazy to yourself, you are putting evil eye on you.

Let us say it together. A CULTURE OF COMPASSION.

I could go on forever, but I don’t need to. You get the point.

Mentally, Take yourself here.

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